Men Who lie!

See the problem with relationships is that... men have all the control. Once they know they have all the control. It's over.. you can just give up or find another fool and hope and pray that he never realizes that he holds the power. See this one guys claims that he loves this girl. He told her that he wanted her to be with him for ever and she better not ever leave his side again. So, like a good woman she became devoted to him and was completely committed. Then suddenly, she realized she was being played. He states "i can't waste time with someone who doesn't trust me" and basically just stop talking to her. Just because she didn't like that he would flirt with all the girls. I would agree that some flirting is just downright disrespectful. So, why did he do this? Why would he beg for her to stay with him the throw her away when she states she is not happy with his outrageous flirting.... Crazy right. I'm guessing he didn't really care to begin with. But he decided to just play along until something else better came along. He is crazy. and has left her questioning.. what happend.??? and why did he stop talking to her.. and why did it go from... one extreme of him needing her to.. not wanting to be with her at all.. My conclusion he is bi-polar and determined to make her have the same condition...This whole situation is nonsense and could have easily been avoided... by the man just simply stating. I relationship is temporary. Or the girl just saying i hate you ...but that is just to much ....so the true question is What the hell???